
“Our women managers are very capable and have a lot of potential.” It’s a phrase we hear often from many of our clients. However, "If potential is so visible, what prevents its progression to senior leadership. especially for women?” In our women leadership workshops, women at middle management ask strikingly similar questions:
“I'm already stretched—can I really take on more?”
“How do I find mentors or sponsors?”
“If I say I’m ambitious, will I be seen as too aggressive or bold?”
“I don’t see anyone like me at the top—so is this even possible?”
At the same time, we hear another set of narratives from managers:
“She collaborates well—but is she tough enough?”
“That role needs travel and stretch—how will she manage everything else?”
Middle management is where leadership expectations spike—and where internal barriers (shaped by years of socialisation) collide with systemic ones.
In societies where women are still seen as primary caregivers, these beliefs don’t switch off at the office door. They influence:
I remember a conversation with Neha, a high-performing middle manager in a large IT firm.
When her manager offered her a high-impact assignment, she paused and said:
“Maybe later. I already have a lot on my plate—professionally and personally.”
Her manager replied, kindly:
“I understand. You must be juggling a lot right now.”
It sounded empathetic. But the assignment quietly moved on.
Neha made a choice—but it was shaped by years of conditioning. And one moment of hesitation became a missed inflection point.
Over years of working with more than 170 organisations and close to 15000 women participants, we’ve noticed a clear pattern:
Companies that struggle to build a strong pipeline of senior women leaders often lose momentum much earlier.
This is why investing in women-focused development programs early is critical—well before leadership transitions begin.
S.C.A.L.E. Organizations that successfully grow women leaders don’t rely on intent alone. They design for scale.
S — Stretch with Intent
Many organizations identify high-potential women—but potential only turns into readiness when paired with the right experiences.
Organizations can:
C — Champions, Not Just Managers
Managers play a pivotal role in shaping careers, yet many are unaware of how everyday decisions impact women differently.
A manager once told me, “I treat everyone the same.”
When we looked closer, all high-visibility assignments over two years had gone to men—without any conscious intent.
Organizations that see progress:
A — Address the Reality Women Navigate
A participant in one of my workshops once told me, “This is the first time I could talk about guilt, visibility, ambition and bias – and feel understood.”
Effective programs:
L — Life Transitions Are Leadership Transitions
Pregnancy, caregiving, or personal transitions often collide with leadership growth.
In one organisation, a woman was moved out of a client-facing role during pregnancy. When she returned, the role had been “filled.”
Organizations that retain women leaders:
E — Evidence Over Assumptions What gets measured gets managed.
Healthy pipelines track:
So really the question isn’t “Do women need separate development programs?”
It’s “Are our systems & efforts designed to develop women equitably?”
Women-only leadership development programs, when done well, are not about exclusion. They are about correcting for invisible gaps—before talent leaks out of the pipeline.
A Call to Action
If you are a business leader, HR partner, or DEI sponsor, ask yourself:
At Interweave Consulting, we work with organizations to intervene early to build their women leadership pipelines.
Because the cost of waiting is not just fewer women at the top.
It’s leadership potential that never gets the chance to scale.
By Shubhashree Naldurg, Interweave Consulting Pvt. Ltd.

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